Sometimes, people simply don't think. Now, before you start throwing tomatoes, let me unpack that a little bit. I want to start off by saying I don't necessarily apply any of what I'm about to say to all people. But... if the shoe fits, lace that thing up and wear it, I guess. I find… Continue reading 30. How to… find your jam.
29. How to… shake it up and shake it off.
Sometimes, you're going to do something that someone else isn't going to like. Sometimes, you're going to say something that you can't take back. These things happen. At the end of the day, even in Second Life, the land of 'do whatever the hell you want,' you still can't make everyone happy, and you certainly… Continue reading 29. How to… shake it up and shake it off.
28. How to… get it all out.
Second Life has exactly zero chill sometimes, guys. I'm sure that any of us who have been around for more than five minutes have figured that out. And I suppose we all have our ways of coping with it while still sticking around the grid to hang out with our friends and fawn over our… Continue reading 28. How to… get it all out.
27. How to… get back up again.
Earlier today, a friend and I were talking about the different meanings lyrics can have and how it's funny to think about some things in those kind of terms. Well, more or less. We were also fangirling a bit about finally getting to watch the first episode of season 5 of Outlander, but I digress.… Continue reading 27. How to… get back up again.
26. How to… choose you.
I hope everyone's Valentine's Day (or Singles Appreciation Day, if you're like me) went well. In my case, there was brownies and an Outlander season 4 marathon, because season 5 debuts tonight... So, ya know, I had to remind myself of all that fabulousness. I've seen so many people concerned or upset the last couple… Continue reading 26. How to… choose you.
25. How to… make it a habit?
I couldn't help it, y'all. This is blog post #25 here, and I feel like I'm finally getting into a routine. And, of course, thinking about the fact that I've gotten myself into a routine brought routines to mind...and I realized just how widely-helpful and healthful having a routine can be. It doesn't matter if… Continue reading 25. How to… make it a habit?
24. How to… move on to better things
So, I was working on something to send Trouble for the feature for Eclipse that he was advertising on Facebook, and I realized something. The person that I'm talking about... She really messed me up. But... But the thing is, I learned so much from that experience. I rose above it. I became a better… Continue reading 24. How to… move on to better things
23. How to… reach for the stars.
I am determined that this week is going to be better than the last, but if I'm honest, I've been running on fumes since Monday. I went to a discussion group the other day, and we talked a little bit about pouring from an empty bucket. I'm there. I've been there. And I know what… Continue reading 23. How to… reach for the stars.
22. How to… share the love.
We're a week out from Valentine's day, and one look at my Facebook or Flickr feeds tells me a couple of things that I'm not too surprised about: Some of y'all are seriously feeling the V-Day vibes. And Some of y'all are just... not. I wish we showed such an outpouring of love and care… Continue reading 22. How to… share the love.
21. How to…keep dreamin’.
It's going to be a long day. On days that really punch you in the gut, I know that it's easier to just lay down and take the whomping from the universe and just give up. But you know what? Don't do that. Keep dreaming. Keep building, and learning, and doing all the things that… Continue reading 21. How to…keep dreamin’.
I Promise I Know What I'm Doing 